Sunday, June 1, 2014

MAY books

This is the last of my catch-up.... you would think I would be happy but I'm just vaguely unsettled.  I know for sure I've read more books than this I just can't THINK of what they are. I know it doesn't matter but for some reason it troubles me.  It's like my brain is going on overdrive trying to remember. 


1. 

From AMAZON: "Elizabeth and Jackson Shore married young, raised two daughters, and weathered the storms of youth as they built a family. From a distance, their lives look picture perfect. But after the girls leave home, Jack and Elizabeth quietly drift apart. When Jack accepts a wonderful new job, Elizabeth puts her own needs aside to follow him across the country. Then tragedy turns Elizabeth’s world upside down. In the aftermath, she questions everything about her life—her choices, her marriage, even her long-forgotten dreams. In a daring move that shocks her husband, friends, and daughters, she lets go of the woman she has become—and reaches out for the woman she wants to be"
Well this is all dandy except I didn't expect Elizabeth to want to be someone who let her husband continue to walk all over her. She changed a lot of things but did not change how she communicated. This book was disappointing.  
 2. 
Another great coming of age story from Sarah Dessen. This story focuses on finding and being your truest self.  
3.
From Amazon: It’s the dubious distinction of thirty-year-old Willa Jackson to hail from a fine old Southern family of means that met with financial ruin generations ago. The Blue Ridge Madam—built by Willa’s great-great-grandfather and once the finest home in Walls of Water, North Carolina—has stood for years as a monument to misfortune and scandal. Willa has lately learned that an old classmate—socialite Paxton Osgood—has restored the house to its former glory, with plans to turn it into a top-flight inn. But when a skeleton is found buried beneath the property’s lone peach tree, long-kept secrets come to light, accompanied by a spate of strange occurrences throughout the town. Thrust together in an unlikely friendship, united by a full-blooded mystery, Willa and Paxton must confront the passions and betrayals that once bound their families—and uncover the truths that have transcended time to touch the hearts of the living."
This one was just ho-hum.  I wanted it to be a Joshilyn Jackson type novel but ended up being flat, predictable, and ultimately unsatisfying.
4.
This is one of those books that the writing was beautiful but the words just did not speak to me.  It really isn't the books fault, it is kinda mine.
First of all, I didn't realize when I checked it out that this was a series of short stories.  You read books differently when they are non-related individual stories than you do a novel.  I initially spent several chapters looking for connections and similarities.  Reading the reviews later, I found that each story had a moment when a person is forever altered by a chance encounter, an action not taken, or a simple twist of fate.  Oh.  Well. Didn't catch that. Woops.
5.

When I first started reading this book, I thought it may be individual short stories again like the previous book I read.  But each seemingly unrelated story slowly wound into each other until by the end they were completely intertwined.  Each narrator was a distinct individual and the ultimate coming together was entirely plausible. This isn't a book that I was just dieing to find out what happened next, but the writing was so good that by the end I was thinking, "Just how did she DO that?".


APRIL BOOKS


1.Product DetailsThe Fall of Five (Lorien Legacies) by Pittacus Lore / YA / ****

This is the fourth book of the Lorien Legacies.  The existing members of the Garde are reunited, and it appears that the last member (Five) has been located.  This book alternates between finding and figuring out FIVE and getting everyone ready for the final confrontation with the Mogadorian.  Booklist summarizes it here, describing the books has having "insanely brave teens, überevil Mogadorian alien invaders, various mystical gadgets, a dash of romantic tension, and lots and lots of explosions".
 2. 

This book is advertised as being about a family caught up in Hurricane Katrina, but to me it was about family, rural poverty, and loyalty. 
 4.
 
This is a story of another family in another tragedy... this time a tsunami that hit the coast of Sri Lanka in 2004. I was pulled in immediately to the story of the first moments when the water came to shore.  The author tells of how she abandoned her elderly parents... was swept away from her husband... and ultimately lost her entire family.  She vividly shares her almost visceral feelings of hopelessness and desperation.
After the first intriguing moments of the book the story became a disorienting journey as the author tried to find herself in her life after the tragedy.  It should have been compelling but it just wasn't. 

5. 

I got such a kick out of this book.  It had many laugh - out - loud moments.

This is from Amazon: "When Mallory discovers that her boyfriend, Jeremy, is cheating on her with an online girlfriend, she swears off boys. She also swears off modern technology. Inspired by a list of goals her grandmother made in 1962, Mallory decides to "go vintage" and return to a simpler time (when boyfriends couldn't cheat on you online). She sets out to complete grandma's list: run for pep club secretary, host a dinner party, sew a homecoming dress, find a steady, do something dangerous. But the list is trickier than it looks. "
6. 

From BOOLIST: "When teenage movie star Graham Larkin accidentally sends small town girl Ellie O'Neill an email about his pet pig, the two seventeen-year-olds strike up a witty and unforgettable correspondence, discussing everything under the sun, except for their names or backgrounds.
Then Graham finds out that Ellie's Maine hometown is the perfect location for his latest film, and he decides to take their relationship from online to in-person. But can a star as famous as Graham really start a relationship with an ordinary girl like Ellie? And why does Ellie want to avoid the media's spotlight at all costs?"
Okay I will be the first to admit that this book sounds totally CHEESY. I would not have picked this up on my own. It was loaned to me by a friend and I ended up LOVING IT. It was totally sweet and cute.  Absolutely delightful.

7.
It is 1940's America.  Two women begin writing to each other through a 4-H address exchange for war wives.  One is a young mother who went from debutante to war bride.  The others is a grown woman with both her husband her son serving. 
The correspondence is charming and gives a detailed picture of what it was like here in America during WWII.  It is a story of friendship and the solidarity of women.
 
I remember seeing this movie when I was in probably 8th grade. It was a cult classic at my Jr High School with everyone quoting lines of dialogue.  A friend loaned me the actual book and I was hooked. This satirical delight is literally one hundred times better than the movie.  It is one I've read over and over again.  It's genius.

BOOK BAG - continued

More of my list... this should conclude my physical library checkouts. Now on to my Kindle books...

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 These are the best books I've read in a LONG TIME.  
At work the other day my friend was telling me that I was one of the few people that understood how you can read a line of a book and have to actually physically STOP for a moment as what you just read was just so poetically beautiful you have to remind yourself to breathe.  This book was full of moments like this.
It is a fairy tale based in Russia.   It is a story of love, family, power, greed.  It is EXCELLENT. I am going to purchase hard copies of the book when the final one comes out NEXT MONTH!!!! I'm not excited at all.

3.

We've all known someone that confuses us in that they continue to hang out with so-called friends even though they are treated poorly over and over.  I'm like that person but with books.  Why did I read this?  I literally HATED the third book.  This series got even more ridiculous as time went by.  Actually this one was not as bad as the third one and it finally did come to a blessed conclusion.  There should be a special spot in hell for authors who write trilogies that somehow end up being four books.  


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Another classic by Sarah Dessen.  Another story of a very real teenager working through very real issues.  She writes great characters and is a compelling story teller.  I like that there is always a happy ending that is achieved after the character experiences growth.  Well done.

BOOK BAG - FEBRUARY and MARCH MAYBE?

It has been literally months since I updated my book list.  It would be easy to just say forget it, but I do like having some type of record of what I read every where.  The list below is one I started writing in April.  This means that I'm guessing I read most of these in February and March 2014.
All of these are books checked out from our local library.


Product DetailsBlackout by Wells, Robison / YA / **1/2
1. Teenagers are starting to develop strange abilities. The government starts rounding up all young people, telling the public they are testing for a dangerous virus. Outside groups are at work to overthrow the government.  This is one of those books that you are left pondering if the government is trying to help by protecting the citizens or is really seeking power by claiming free citizens and using them as tools.  I thought I would like that this book was based in Utah, but instead it kinda threw me off. Not sure why.

2.,3.,4.
Product DetailsRuby Red (The Ruby Red Trilogy) by Gier, Kerstin and Anthea Bell / YA / ***1/2


Sapphire Blue (The Ruby Red Trilogy) by Gier, Kerstin and Bell, Anthea / YA / ***
Product DetailsEmerald Green (The Ruby Red Trilogy) by Gier, Kerstin and Bell, Anthea / YA / ***
This Young Adult trilogy has it all... a realistic but flawed heroine, her faithful nerdy sidekick, a storybook-worthy love interest, and a narrative arc full of adventure and mystery. It involves time travel, an evil villein, and great clothes! The first book was the the best one. I was disappointed with the abruptness of the ending... it seemed very anti-climatic to me. Despite that, it was a good read.



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Fangirl by Rowell, Rainbow / YA / ****
Rainbow Rowell is a new rising star in the world of young adult literature. Her characters are so real, her dialogue is brilliant, and she delivers the right amount of emotional punch.  Her writing celebrates the ordinary, the quirky, and the flawed.  I am a fan.



Product DetailsInside Out and Back Again by Lai, Thanhha / YA / ****
6. This is the story of a family that escaped Vietnam during the fall of the government to communism in the 70's.  It is a story of a broken family in a new country with new customs. It had light-hearted moments telling cultural mistakes made and overcome, as well as tender moments as we are introduced to people who see the value of every member of the human family regardless of color of skin or country of origin.   I sat down and started this book during my lunch hour and then couldn't put it down until I was done.  This book joins a list of great literature that educates as well as inspires.




Product DetailsJust Listen by Dessen, Sarah / YA / ****
7. Another great story by Sarah Dessen.  The title, "Just Listen" refers to a  disc made for the main character, Annabel, by her new friend Owen. To me, the title should instead be, "Just Speak" as the story focuses on how the unsaid thoughts and needs carried by different characters affect not only themselves but those around them.  I like how the author Sarah is not into immediate results in her books, meaning that she understands and shares that healing takes time.  Relationships take time.  People take time. 



Product DetailsThe Moon and More by Sarah, Dessen / YA / ***
8. This one was not my favorite of Sarah Dessen's books but I appreciated the message that in life, people let us down and disappoint us, but we can still love and appreciate the good things they have to offer.   
Product DetailsThe Power of Six (Lorien Legacies) by Lore, Pittacus / YA / ****1/2
9. The is the second book in the Lorien Legacies (the first being, "I am Number Four").  I am really enjoying this series. The foundation of the story is that ten aliens escaped their conquered planet to hide on earth until they can come into their powers and seek retribution.  The actual story is so much more than that, and is very character driven.  This series is one that I devour each book in one sitting.






Product DetailsThe Rise of Nine (Lorien Legacies) by Lore, Pittacus / YA / ****
10. This is the third book in the Lorien Legacies (see above).  The story continues as Four and Six work together to find the other members of their group scattered across the globe while trying to avoid capture by their alien enemies.  


Product DetailsRapture (Fallen) by Kate, Lauren / YA / *
11. In February I wrote that I had read the first three books of this series and really hated them. Don't ask me what I was thinking by reading this fourth and final book.  There should be a word for the level of stupidity required to continue to read something you know you are going to hate. 

12.,13.,14.
Product DetailsWither (The Chemical Garden Trilogy) by DeStefano, Lauren  / YA / ***1/2
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Fever (The Chemical Garden Trilogy) by DeStefano, Lauren  / YA / ***
 
Product DetailsSever (The Chemical Garden Trilogy) by DeStefano, Lauren  / YA / ***

I don't remember a lot of the details of this one... I remember it was a post-apocalyptic world... and that experiments had been done to make a perfect race had only worked on the original generation.  All children born after the genetic changes only lived until age 20 for women and 25 for men.
Because of this, society is in chaos.  Orphans are everywhere. Crime and poverty are persistent. Those alive have a live-while-you-can mentality.
 
The main character was kidnapped off the street and forced to be one of the multiple wives of a rich man working to have multiple children to continue the species.  His father (one of the original citizens with long life) has an ulterior motive that is dark and sinister. 

I remember liking the books but thought the first one was by far the best. One of my pet peeves is implausible coincidences and this series was full of them.


Moving along the path...


When Emily first started going to college at Brigham Young University in Provo, she and her roommates made a goal to attend the temple once a week if possible to do baptisms.  The first time they went, they asked two of the young men that lived in their apartment complex to come along, too.


This group became great friends and temple buddies.

They quickly learned that many other students had the same idea as them. When they would go to the temple, there would be long lines of people.  Sometimes it took about four hours out of their busy day in order to have a turn.  They started attending earlier and earlier, often getting up and going at 5:00 in the morning in order to have a chance to provide service.

(Side note from me:  First of all - WHO DOES THAT? Five a.m.??? Really? And who ever heard of a COLLEGE student being willing to do this? )



This continued week after week.  Sometimes it was a larger group. Sometimes it was just a few of them. Some weeks they didn't make it at all. One time they drove to Salt Lake to serve.

 

When Emily's roommates changed for the summer, she continued the tradition with them.



Of their original group of five, four are already on missions and Emily will be leaving in July.
 
With all her weekly service in the Provo Temple, it did not surprise me at all that Emily chose to attend there as she prepared to make the next series of covenants with God.

Emily attended the temple on May 27, 2014.  It was a special day. My sister Ashlee serves as a temple worker in the Raleigh Temple in North Carolina.  She surprised the family by flying across the country to be with Emily on her special day.  

As we drove to Provo to meet Emily and Ashlee, my heart was full.  My current "job" in the church is working with the Young Women ages 12-18.  Each Sunday we stand together and say the Young Women's theme:

Young Women Theme pink flower

 


We are daughters of our Heavenly Father, who loves us, and we love Him. We will “stand as witnesses of God at all times and in all things, and in all places” as we strive to live the Young Women values, which are:


Faith • Divine Nature • Individual Worth • Knowledge • Choice and Accountability • Good Works • Integrity • and Virtue

We believe as we come to accept and act upon these values, we will be prepared to strengthen home and family, make and keep sacred covenants, receive the ordinances of the temple, and enjoy the blessings of exaltation.




 It did not escape me that Emily preparing to attend the temple was the result of living this commitment she stated each week at church as well as the loving watch-care of many people who love and cherish her. 



Her presence at the temple that day was a result of a series of choices.

When she was eight, she chose to be baptized.  She chose to put herself on the path of a Christ-like life. She took on herself the name of God, and promised to always remember Jesus Christ.

When she was 12, she started to work in earnest to prepare herself for a life of dedicated service.  She made choices to be honest. To be virtuous. To be kind.  She set goals for herself and kept them.  She continued making choices that kept her on the path she had committed to keep at baptism.


Now, at 19, she made the choice to attend the temple to make her next covenants with God. She is continuing down the path.  She attended the temple to learn eternal truths... to make promises of obedience and sacrifice... to learn things that will help her as a missionary as she works to share the message of Christ which is designed to unite families together forever and help us all return to God. 

It was an emotional day. It was at times an overwhelming day (as it should be if you are serious in your commitments).  It was a beautiful day.  

I am so grateful to get to be a mom to this amazing person. 





Monday, April 28, 2014

20th ANNIVERSARY TRIP - Final night and day SEVENTEEN

All good things must come to an end.

We spent our last night of our trip getting everything packed up and prepared, saying goodbye to new friends, and spending some final time together.  We had a final dinner together complete with a chocolate buffet, and then went to our final show.


 

We went out on deck and took a few final pictures. The moon on the water was simply stunning.  The ship was really quiet and the ocean smooth.










One of the stations on the ship TV gives 24 hour-a-day statistical information regarding time, temperature, sea conditions, etc. One piece of information that they present is the number of miles we'd sailed.  In the eleven days we'd been gone we sailed 3,127 miles!

We were one of the last to get off the ship... we were not in any rush as we had a later flight.  We enjoyed a leisurely breakfast and then hung out in the ship lobby until we were basically kicked off.


We took a shuttle back to Fort Lauderdale and then flew back to Las Vegas. 

 
On the way back to Utah we were stuck on the freeway for a few hours as there had been a serious accident.  Plus it was COLD! By the time we drove home I think we'd all developed a cold.  It was GOOD to be home even though it meant going back to school and work!










Sunday, April 27, 2014

20th ANNIVERSARY TRIP - TEEN CLUB

If anyone would have told me that on our trip Elissa would be running around the cruise ship dressed as a gorilla, I would have called them CRAZY.  Who knew it was my KIDS that were the crazy ones?


 

Elissa and Elizabeth really met some great friends this trip. Where the cruise was 11 days, they had a lot of time to get to know each other and be together.  Their group was from all over the United States plus Scotland and Germany.





By the end of the trip they were eating most meals together and spending the majority of their time with each other.  



They played board and card games, went on scavenger hunts, danced at the White Hot party, and had all kind of crazy activities like "Anger Games" (a play on "Hunger Games"), People bingo, and giant spoons.


Elissa and Elizabeth heading to the "White Hot" party on deck
 

 Their fearless leader was Teddy, an adventurous bloke from England.



Several darling boys started showing up quite often.... even at 1:00 in the morning. Weren't they surprised when Darren came to the cabin door?



Facebook and other social media has made it a little easier to stay in touch.  

Elizabeth is in contact with several of their group. Just today Elissa got a post-card from her friend Josh (which gave us fodder for a new round of teasing!!). Isn't this fun?